Shoot for the stars!
We all crave encouragement. We all want others to wish us well and talk us through the tough times so that we can look back and feel excited about what we’ve accomplished. So, why not treat children with disabilities the same? They want to feel the same sense of pride we get when we set a goal really high and then achieve it. Read on for a sweet story about a young boy who offers a ‘thank you’ for a basketball coach from his local YMCA for NOT treating him ‘special’ but allowing him to shoot for the stars (no pun intended). Keep reading…it’ll all make sense in a minute!
I want to recognize one of the silent heroes who make â€œspecialsâ€ like me feel like weâ€™re not so special. This post honors my basketball coach, Steve Frantz, at the Ambler YMCA.
You see, Iâ€™ve been in the gym shooting baskets a lot lately, and it got me thinking about how much we lower the bar these days. Itâ€™s easy to expect less of people and be happy when they exceed mediocre expectations. Whatever happened to setting the bar high and stretching ourselves to achieve at our maximum ability or beyond?
I always shoot on the regulation basket. Thatâ€™s 10 feet in the air â€" literally 6 feet taller than me. I couldnâ€™t make it when I first started, but after lots of tries, I make it almost all the time now. I can even hit a few from the real foul line. Iâ€™m not bragging but merely trying to make the point that no matter how high the bar â€" or basket â€" and no matter how much you think you canâ€™t, you usually can if you try. Itâ€™s even more achievable if you have people around you to coach and teach and encourage you.
One of those people is Coach Steve, who treats me like all of the typical kids on the team. Iâ€™m actually pretty good â€" hundreds of hours of practice will do that â€" but I still have challenges and am still different. Coach Steve makes sure Iâ€™m learning just like the typical kids, but he doesnâ€™t favor me. Mom and Dad refrain from running onto the court every five minutes to help me, and so does Coach Steve. Because of him, Iâ€™m learning lots of new things and so are my typical teammates. Theyâ€™re learning tolerance and will be future heroes like Coach Steve. Iâ€™m learning that Iâ€™m not so special and that I fit in with everyone else. So thank you, Coach Steve, and all the other silent heroes who donâ€™t lower the baskets for â€œspecialsâ€ like me and for anyone else. You make us all better.
Is there someone in your life you would like to say ‘thank you’ to for helping you through a tough time or who just offers words of encouragement? Let them know. Make 2015 a year of encouragement and thank you’s. What a beautiful place this would could be!